Watch “after 10year surprised bf gf crying 😭❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘#status #whtsp” on YouTube

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SPEECHLESS 💘 Emotions.

OUR EXISTANCE

Here, WE belong to….

 

Just a few minutes ago I got to know that it’s my first anniversary of  writing  my blog “bornalmost” on word press.  I am very happy to know that I am a year old but it’s  a  wonderful  surprising coincidence that, just a few minutes before getting congratulations and greetings of being a year old on word press, I got to see a beautiful short movie on the Vimeo, reflecting the truth about our mere existence in the universe  that’s where we belong to…. 

So, its “You” who’ve supported me by liking my writings and ideas, therefore, I gift all my greetings and congratulations to “You”  who  must be rewarded and got to know  and experience this….

http://vimeo.com/73317780

 

“Enjoy” !!!

 

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Save the world

Just 3 minutes before I subscribed a channel on Youtube called “Spirit Science”.  Do you want to know Why ?  I Saw there a Big, very big, really a very very very very……………………………………………………………big big big big…………………………………………………………bigger movie of the time.  I got inspired a lot to share the same with all my friends, viewers and the followers and their friends, viewers,  and the followers and their friends, viewers and the followers………………………………………………………………….and, and, and, and, and……………………………………………………………………..with everyone on this planet, because this means something related and unique to all of them and belongs to everyone.  You have to explore yourself after watching the video in the link mentioned here.       https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrW-8Tlir94&feature=autoshare

This is really inspiring and an awakening thought to share and support with full of honesty in saving the world for our future survival and existence.  So be with it…..

 

 

That’s how your whole life will feel some day

This seems to be worthy enough to explore….

Live & Learn

“No matter how careful you are, there’s going to be the sense you missed something, the collapsed feeling under your skin that you didn’t experience it all. There’s that fallen heart feeling that you rushed right through the moments where you should’ve been paying attention.

“Well, get used to that feeling. That’s how your whole life will feel some day.”

Chuck Palahniuk, from Invisible Monsters

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Charles Michael Palahniuk, 52, is an American novelist and freelance journalist, who describes his work as transgressional fiction. spent his early childhood living out of a mobile home in Burbank, Washington. His parents, Carol and Fred Palahniuk, separated and divorced when he was fourteen, leaving Chuck and his siblings to spend much of their time on their maternal grandparent’s cattle ranch.  Chuck graduated from the University of Oregon with a BA in journalism. He entered the workforce as a journalist for a local Portland newspaper…

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Beauty

I can’t add a single word here, for having been found my bliss on exploring these beautiful lines. Feel them within your deep interiors of peace and calm for sharing the same experience with me….

Make Believe Boutique

At some point in life, the world’s beauty becomes enough.
…..Toni Morrison

Beauty is a primeval phenomenon,
which itself never makes its appearance,
but the reflection of which is visible
in a thousand different utterances
of the creative mind,
and is as various as nature herself.
…..Goethe

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Pranayama The Yoga and ‘You’. Trigger ‘Yourself ‘

Yoga and ‘You’. Trigger ‘Yourself ‘.

Purpose and Dream

“It’s the best high you can get naturally” (quoted from new friend on bus)

Do it at the office, do it on the train, do it while driving,
I’ve even done it while partying.

Here, my dears, we are discussing an ancient yoga technique. A quick fix to stress and anxiety.

Pranayama

Prana= life force
Yama= breath

I will go into more detail on meditations and visualization down the road.
The practice of discussion is alternate nostril breathing, balancing the left and right hemispheres of the brain.
Easily bringing one into alpha states.

This form of yoga connects to the Nadis (energy channels), which also connect to the chakras.

The left channel= Ida
Is represented as the feminine.
Right brain.
Yin
Cold, introverted, receptive.
It is termed “being”.
Associated with creativity, nurturing, empathy, emotions.
Passive, observant, intuitive and understanding.
Represented by the moon.

The right channel= Pingala
Is represented as…

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Why? You would know if I knew.

A live portrait of a good humanity.

Inception

I am but a human. I fear. I believe. I hope. I dream.

I worry about the future. Yet, I look forward to it.

I yearn for new experiences. Yet, I cherish the ones I’ve had.

I worry about the effects of my actions. But, I still act in the only manner I ever would.

I ache for the touch of passion. I wait on words hanging onto visions.

I fake a smile. I force a laugh. I dance and play the part.

I hold grudges. I hate. I believe in kindness. I love.

I lay back, looking up at the universe. I aspire.

I dream of realms I could never visit. I am haunted by demons that do not exist.

I long for the glimpse of a winter sun. I seek for the caress of the summer breeze.

I am just a wave tossed in the ocean. I am just a vapour floating along the wind. 

I am confident, filled…

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Who cares?

     

“Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.” ~ Margaret Mead

The world is so chaotic. Depression, suicide, and addictions are increasing worldwide at a rapid rate. It shows that people are hurting and feel alone with their pain. But why care?

Because even if you feel you can’t change the earth, you may be able to change somebody’s world.

“Let my soul smile through my heart and my heart smile through my eyes, that I may scatter rich smiles in sad hearts.” ~ Paramahansa Yogananda

No matter how small your gesture, it can make a difference to someone. A smile costs nothing but it may just brighten someone’s day. A sympathetic ear can help someone feel that they are not alone with their problem. An offer of help may give someone an extra boost to achieve their dream.

It’s not important how you show you care, as long as you do. For when you do, you initiate a chain of kindness that is passed on to others and it is this collective caring that helps to change the world.

Sometimes though it isn’t the lack of care that is the concern, it is the ability to receive it that is difficult. If you’ve experienced rejection you can be left with a lack of trust that forms a barrier to accepting any level affection.

I went through many years convincing myself that I didn’t want anyone to care for me out of pure fear that I would attach to their love only to have it ripped away from me. And even believing that someone would want to care was improbable. How could anyone care about me when my own mother had physically abandoned me and mentally killed me off in her mind?

Yet I did need someone to care. I needed it desperately. Whilst I was too terrified to take the risk to reach out, it was impossible for anyone to reach in. The combination of depression and alcoholism constructed an emotional barricade that was impenetrable.

“The walls that you build as a safeguard are the same walls that will in turn isolate and imprison.” ~ The Hurt Healer

Unfortunately my mental fortress served only to trap me further in my cycle of despair by restricting me to living each day based only on the my experiences of rejection and abuse. Worse, it prevented any chance of allowing healing or restoration.

There was only one way that I was going to ever be able to be helped and that was for the walls to come down. Of course this was an inevitability that I hadn’t the courage to face, and so it was my mental breakdown that resulted in the collapse of my barriers. As they came crushing down, my vulnerability was exposed and I waited for the end of my life to come.

But it didn’t. Because someone cared. Professionals stepped in and there were friends who stood by me. They cared for me when I was unable to care for myself. Over time I learnt how to renew my boundaries in a positive way. Life stopped being simply a battle against the bad, and became a home for the good.

“Pour out your heart before Him. God is a refuge for us.” ~ Psalm 62:8

Most importantly I found a faith that cared unconditionally. I realised that God cared, and that He had done all along. When I was willing to receive the love that had waited for me, I was then able to heal.  And as I handed over my past, present and future into the security of His hands, so I found the refuge I had longed for. Today I am safely in His care. 

We all need someone to care for us. But that love needs to be rooted in truth.  And it needs to be given freely. If someone is showing you that they care only to want something from you in return, then it isn’t genuine. Steer clear.

“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.  If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”  ~ Dalai Lama

It bothers me that so many people are hurting and nobody seems to care. Yet I know that the best way to feel cared for is to care for others. Doing something kind for someone makes you feel good too.

So in answer to the question ‘Who cares?’

I do. I care.

I have been fascinated by this amazing post written originally  by one of the genius blogger ” The Hurt Healer”.  So I took her kind  permission to reblog this post into my blog for sharing it with my friends and visitors without changing a single word.  I hope they will like and appreciate the idea after going through it. I wish to dedicate this post to one of my loved ones with the heartiest LOVING congratulations on his birthday today for my immense pleasure felt earlier on this special day of 26.09.1992.  A very happy birthday wish to him from all of us.

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• Building Paradise in the Age of Decay (orwellwasright.co.uk)
• I don’t believe in a loving force (worthit2bme.wordpress.com)
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The Competition age.

I have just come home after meeting quite an extraordinary couple. They have made such an impact on me that I couldn’t wait to reach home and penning down my experience. They have left me mesmerized. The man I just met, is a journalist and an editor of a magazine but even more so he is a composed, well natured and a very learned saint like man.  I am still trying to gain the courage to share a thought we shared.  We spent about two hours chit chatting and in that time I, with my outspoken nature, commented on how mutinies rise. There are infinite reasons and causes, subjects and inspirations as well as leaders for the rise of recalcitrance. But the biggest and the main is a drop of thought that is sowed into the minds of the people and grows into words. Which in turn forms an ocean of opinion and a basis of  fundamental changes in this unstable thinking of the society. One such thought is the obsession of the people to come first in everything they do. Everyone, from a beggar on the street to the president of a nation to a businessman, is a part of the crowd who want nothing more from life than to always come first. Only the winner, is remembered and in extremely rare cases the person who came second but our society doesn’t know the counting further. For them either you’re a hero or a mere valueless zero. What I am trying to say is that even though there are a million people in the race to come first but in the end there is only one first spot and there can only be one winner. Out of these millions there are some thousands of people who claim to be running this race of competence for the welfare of the society. But in the end the question is, for how long can we blindly run in this race and make others run to their death? Why doesn’t anyone think of a better way to live?  Because in the end when, those who spend all their will and energy in the race to come first have to settle for the latter positions.  And, consequently they begin to think that they’re a burden on the society and themselves. They either go into depression or, like a gambler, are ready to bet on everything, just to taste the bitterness of loss over and over again. Is the experience of just competing not enough to prove to us that we have sufficient energy and are capable of competition?. As well as we are a force of nature and this world which matters all.  Is winning the only way of convincing our self of that?  There are some  subjects of social awareness like sports and spiritualism, those leading towards the balance of equilibrium of all the societies of the world. Alas! they have also been infected by  the lure of making money, positions, power,  professionalism and politics rather than serving the people equally. The most shameful thing is that the society shuns anyone who dares to think differently, dares to give up on the race and live life their way. It turns us all into robots who have to follow the rules to stay a part of the society which is built by us and consists of us. Our mythologies and holy scriptures all tell us that humans are the most evolved, intellectual and self-awakened creatures on earth. We are one of a kind and there is none other than us. Similarly are our god, Allah or Jesus, who we worship and have faith is one and only one too, there is no other like him.  Then,  Why do we think of ourselves as superior to some and different from each other,  while inferior to others?  Why do we think ourselves and our soul so small and cheap as compare to compete for petty small materialistic stuff? Yes, we do compete only for this.  Why do we create ourselves stereotypes?   Why?  Till when?  Somebody has to raise this question.  If not directly then subtly. Someone has to make sure that it is answered.  Someone has to do it, and that someone is us only us.  Who can be else other than us? If in a gathering there are 2-3 or even 10 people, competition among them is understandable and to some extent healthy too.  It is comprehensible till there are 20 even 30 people but the sense of competition goes beyond my understanding as soon as 3,4,5.10.100, and 1000… zeroes are put behind the per existing 10. There are millions of stars in the night sky. Whose demeanor is how bright is a relative term and merely depends on how the observer is observing them. Who will prove this? What is the position of our sun and its family in this uncountable stars and planets. Is that possible? We, too, are like the billions of stars of the universe. Our merits and demerits are beyond the judging capacity of any individual,  yet why do we even try?  Why do we even compete?  Yes, no matter what some say,  we do compete?  We compare ourselves to immaterial things and deem ourselves unworthy. When we cannot measure how we feel, our honesty, our caliber on a scale then how do we judge ourselves as inferior or superior to others? We have learnt to roll our eyes, keep tongue tied and go where the entire sheep herd is going. That is why we have learnt to live subdued. We bow our heads to the ‘superior’ and bow the heads of the ‘inferior’ in front of us due to losing a touch of sensitivity towards feelings. Something is terribly wrong. These are not a prospering  people and societies of our existing world. In competition we are going towards our end.  We have to take a stand. Even if a beggar on the street refuses to bow down to the millionaire or a powerful our society will change for the better.  And if everyone does this our society will be better, everything will change. The competition must end to join the parade of winners as equals. So that everyone is a winner. You are a winner not a competitor.

Love.

So, there is a need to organize the fourth type of people, who may be different from others but their true efforts are not different from others. Anyone can choose to be performed like them. Because the final product of each and everyone’s honest dedication will be the same..

Love

Let’s try to describe it more elaborately. Yet, it is not possible to explain love in words. Though, its need can be understood as it is the most needed thing in each and every one’s life. But people prefer other materilastic things before selecting Love as their first demand mostly.

Why do we do this?

Because we do not know how to love ourselves. And we put ourselves secondary against all world, here we make a mistake to judge ourselves very small and similarly to judge Love (we) very small.  Let’s be more specific and short because there is no end in explaining the reasons of realization that it is the final destination where we have to embark upon. Otherwise we shall lose each and everything of this world, including us.

So, if the necessity is so big.  Then, can you imagine the size of the necessity. Yes, it is unimaginable.

There are no horizons of Love.

And it is the finest, strongest , unseen thread which can hold almost thousands and millons of worlds. Then, we have a very short tiny planet to hold it as ‘One’. And, it is not a very big task to do. Because we have to do nothing.  Yes, we have to do nothing.  We’re already bounded with each other within our deep inner pure soul.  Just we have to feel the deepness and fullness and solidity of our soul.  That is Love.

Yes, Love is our Soul which we experience many times.

But we don’t even know what we are doing by losing experience of love. Infact, we lose our soul, we get apart from our soul day by day. we shrink ourselves day by day. We run away from it without realizing that there is no turning back and now the distance has become so much that we have made a prison of geological boundaries like big continents and countries to small towns and big houses. We’re the prisoner of our egoistic bodies living in so called places. We have narrowed our path by narrowing our thoughts of living, we cannot share us with others. These are the problems we  have to understand and solve.

We don’t have to understand what love is… because we cannot.  We should surrender to the power of love by losing some ego and selfishness to start our journey of fulfillment and happiness.

Only, we can enjoy these beautiful feelings on the passage of  Love.
There is no other except us to do so, because it is made for us . We are born to it. We are born with this. We can do this.

We can Love each other. Just Do.