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I cannot expect from myself such an interesting & more explicit interpretation about “Life” but it happened by me in my deep state of unknown thoughts, by the virtue of love to exist in this materialistic world, somehow. I think it’s my best creativity ever beyond my imagination. So I’d love to share it thousand and thousand times with my friends and followers till “Life” permits me to do so. Please enjoy it and try to understand “Life” in a straight and clear interpretation here, cause there exists nothing in this universe except only one thing i.e.”Life” or “You”

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Steven Paul Jobs, called Steve Jobs, co-founde... Steven Paul Jobs, called Steve Jobs, co-founder, chairman and CEO of Apple Inc. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Steven Jobs once mentioned in a motivating speech for each one of us:

” You’ve got to find what you love.  Don’t  settle…as with all matters of the heart.  You will know when you find it”.

Earlier since, I started writing on this blog, I was really confused about the way I was living my life for.   Still,  I haven’t found my way of living my life. But the above lines sparked me to try again til, I got to find what I love and what I want to do.  Then, ‘not to settle’ until  my heart says OK Fine !   I  tried to find and seek to overlook my undone efforts on the questions of life.  And in this process,  I discovered a few interesting facts of  life.  That I want to share…

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Who cares?


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“Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.” ~ Margaret Mead

The world is so chaotic. Depression, suicide, and addictions are increasing worldwide at a rapid rate. It shows that people are hurting and feel alone with their pain. But why care?

Because even if you feel you can’t change the earth, you may be able to change somebody’s world.

“Let my soul smile through my heart and my heart smile through my eyes, that I may scatter rich smiles in sad hearts.” ~ Paramahansa Yogananda

No matter how small your gesture, it can make a difference to someone. A smile costs nothing but it may just brighten someone’s day. A sympathetic ear can help someone feel that they are not alone with their problem. An offer of help may give someone an extra boost to achieve their dream.

It’s not important how you show you care, as long as you do. For when you do, you initiate a chain of kindness that is passed on to others and it is this collective caring that helps to change the world.

Sometimes though it isn’t the lack of care that is the concern, it is the ability to receive it that is difficult. If you’ve experienced rejection you can be left with a lack of trust that forms a barrier to accepting any level affection.

I went through many years convincing myself that I didn’t want anyone to care for me out of pure fear that I would attach to their love only to have it ripped away from me. And even believing that someone would want to care was improbable. How could anyone care about me when my own mother had physically abandoned me and mentally killed me off in her mind?

Yet I did need someone to care. I needed it desperately. Whilst I was too terrified to take the risk to reach out, it was impossible for anyone to reach in. The combination of depression and alcoholism constructed an emotional barricade that was impenetrable.

“The walls that you build as a safeguard are the same walls that will in turn isolate and imprison.” ~ The Hurt Healer

Unfortunately my mental fortress served only to trap me further in my cycle of despair by restricting me to living each day based only on the my experiences of rejection and abuse. Worse, it prevented any chance of allowing healing or restoration.

There was only one way that I was going to ever be able to be helped and that was for the walls to come down. Of course this was an inevitability that I hadn’t the courage to face, and so it was my mental breakdown that resulted in the collapse of my barriers. As they came crushing down, my vulnerability was exposed and I waited for the end of my life to come.

But it didn’t. Because someone cared. Professionals stepped in and there were friends who stood by me. They cared for me when I was unable to care for myself. Over time I learnt how to renew my boundaries in a positive way. Life stopped being simply a battle against the bad, and became a home for the good.

“Pour out your heart before Him. God is a refuge for us.” ~ Psalm 62:8

Most importantly I found a faith that cared unconditionally. I realised that God cared, and that He had done all along. When I was willing to receive the love that had waited for me, I was then able to heal.  And as I handed over my past, present and future into the security of His hands, so I found the refuge I had longed for. Today I am safely in His care. 

We all need someone to care for us. But that love needs to be rooted in truth.  And it needs to be given freely. If someone is showing you that they care only to want something from you in return, then it isn’t genuine. Steer clear.compassion

“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.  If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”  ~ Dalai Lama

It bothers me that so many people are hurting and nobody seems to care. Yet I know that the best way to feel cared for is to care for others. Doing something kind for someone makes you feel good too.

So in answer to the question ‘Who cares?’

I do. I care.

I have been fascinated by this amazing post written originally  by one of the genius blogger ” The Hurt Healer”.  So I took her kind  permission to reblog this post into my blog for sharing it with my friends and visitors without changing a single word.  I hope they will like and appreciate the idea after going through it. I wish to dedicate this post to one of my loved ones with the heartiest LOVING congratulations on his birthday today for my immense pleasure felt earlier on this special day of 26.09.1992.  A very happy birthday wish to him from all of us.